Self-avoidance never stays private. It spills outward. Into blame, conflict, and broken relationships. This piece explores how unclaimed pain becomes a public problem, and why the real work begins in the mirror.

We chase money, muscles, meaning. But kids don’t need your paycheck. They need your presence. Stop proving yourself out there, while they’re waiting for you in here.

Anger isn’t the problem. Disconnection is.
This piece explores what happens when your child hits your weak spot, and why your reaction reveals the parts of you still ruled by shame, pain, and unprocessed wounds. A call to fathers to face the dragon before their children pay the price.